The Real Reason You're Not Healing: Beyond Discipline

[Music] [Music] [Music] Hey everyone, welcome back to another Hey everyone, welcome back to another Hey everyone, welcome back to another episode of Integrative View Radio. You episode of Integrative View Radio. You episode of Integrative View Radio. You guys are so lucky. Today we have Dr. guys are so lucky. Today we have Dr. guys are so lucky. Today we have Dr. Nick here, Nick here, Nick here, the luckiest. the luckiest. the luckiest. So, we uh we have survived um a month So, we uh we have survived um a month So, we uh we have survived um a month and a half of a newborn and we are happy and a half of a newborn and we are happy and a half of a newborn and we are happy to say that we are actually continuing to say that we are actually continuing to say that we are actually continuing our cadence of our podcast uh with our cadence of our podcast uh with our cadence of our podcast uh with Quentyn who was our first. We um we were Quentyn who was our first. We um we were Quentyn who was our first. We um we were fully year hiatus. fully year hiatus. fully year hiatus. We've learned a lot in the past uh past We've learned a lot in the past uh past We've learned a lot in the past uh past time frame. time frame. time frame. Yep. That's that's for sure. Uh, so for Yep. That's that's for sure. Uh, so for Yep. That's that's for sure. Uh, so for those of you that have been following us those of you that have been following us those of you that have been following us for a while and you also follow us on for a while and you also follow us on for a while and you also follow us on social media, you may have seen one of social media, you may have seen one of social media, you may have seen one of our amazing case studies that we have our amazing case studies that we have our amazing case studies that we have posted recently. For those of you that posted recently. For those of you that posted recently. For those of you that have no idea what I'm talking about, have no idea what I'm talking about, have no idea what I'm talking about, that is okay. So, essentially, we were that is okay. So, essentially, we were that is okay. So, essentially, we were working with someone who came to us with working with someone who came to us with working with someone who came to us with very, very severe psoriasis. very, very severe psoriasis. very, very severe psoriasis. And we did our thing. We uncovered the And we did our thing. We uncovered the And we did our thing. We uncovered the root cause which was a multitude of root cause which was a multitude of root cause which was a multitude of different things. And this individual different things. And this individual different things. And this individual had significant significant progress in had significant significant progress in had significant significant progress in 6 weeks and actual complete resolution 6 weeks and actual complete resolution 6 weeks and actual complete resolution of psoriasis, of psoriasis, of psoriasis, 30 year long psoriasis in 12 weeks. And 30 year long psoriasis in 12 weeks. And 30 year long psoriasis in 12 weeks. And it it was just so wild to watch how it it was just so wild to watch how it it was just so wild to watch how quickly this unfolded. and he's the one quickly this unfolded. and he's the one quickly this unfolded. and he's the one who initiated the photos. We don't who initiated the photos. We don't who initiated the photos. We don't really ask our clients to do that. We're really ask our clients to do that. We're really ask our clients to do that. We're just focused on getting them better. And just focused on getting them better. And just focused on getting them better. And he took photos of what he looked like u he took photos of what he looked like u he took photos of what he looked like u before and then photos of after. And I before and then photos of after. And I before and then photos of after. And I remember we were doing his 12week remember we were doing his 12week remember we were doing his 12week reevaluation and he said I go, "How are reevaluation and he said I go, "How are reevaluation and he said I go, "How are things going?" And he's like, "It's like things going?" And he's like, "It's like things going?" And he's like, "It's like it never happened." And I was like kind it never happened." And I was like kind it never happened." And I was like kind of like, "Okay." of like, "Okay." of like, "Okay." And then he sent the photos and I was And then he sent the photos and I was And then he sent the photos and I was like, "Holy shit." That was my exact like, "Holy shit." That was my exact like, "Holy shit." That was my exact response. response. response. And so we had the opportunity to use And so we had the opportunity to use And so we had the opportunity to use this and showcase it on our social this and showcase it on our social this and showcase it on our social platforms. And it led to a series of platforms. And it led to a series of platforms. And it led to a series of inquiries and phone calls. inquiries and phone calls. inquiries and phone calls. And one of the things that I do is I And one of the things that I do is I And one of the things that I do is I will hop on our calls just to answer any will hop on our calls just to answer any will hop on our calls just to answer any clinical questions for potential new clinical questions for potential new clinical questions for potential new clients. But it's also because it's a clients. But it's also because it's a clients. But it's also because it's a dual interview process. We don't really dual interview process. We don't really dual interview process. We don't really take anyone. Um because we know that we take anyone. Um because we know that we take anyone. Um because we know that we are looking for individuals and families are looking for individuals and families are looking for individuals and families that are aligned to who we are and what that are aligned to who we are and what that are aligned to who we are and what our company stands for. And we also want our company stands for. And we also want our company stands for. And we also want to make sure we we are a fit for them to make sure we we are a fit for them to make sure we we are a fit for them and their expectations. and their expectations. and their expectations. So anyway, the whole moral of the story So anyway, the whole moral of the story So anyway, the whole moral of the story is is that those phone calls and the is is that those phone calls and the is is that those phone calls and the conversations that unfolded really led conversations that unfolded really led conversations that unfolded really led to this podcast. to this podcast. to this podcast. And something that I found myself self And something that I found myself self And something that I found myself self saying to certain individuals is based saying to certain individuals is based saying to certain individuals is based on where you are at, on where you are at, on where you are at, there is a strong probability that you there is a strong probability that you there is a strong probability that you will not get the same results as this will not get the same results as this will not get the same results as this individual in the case study. And they individual in the case study. And they individual in the case study. And they were pretty floored by me saying that. were pretty floored by me saying that. were pretty floored by me saying that. And I I said there are three major And I I said there are three major And I I said there are three major components to why this individual had components to why this individual had components to why this individual had such success in a short amount of time. such success in a short amount of time. such success in a short amount of time. And it was not because he was And it was not because he was And it was not because he was disciplined and an A student and did disciplined and an A student and did disciplined and an A student and did every little thing we told him to do. every little thing we told him to do. every little thing we told him to do. I mean, he he did the majority of things I mean, he he did the majority of things I mean, he he did the majority of things we told him to do, but like you said, we told him to do, but like you said, we told him to do, but like you said, that's not why he got the results that that's not why he got the results that that's not why he got the results that he did. Yeah, because more recently we he did. Yeah, because more recently we he did. Yeah, because more recently we had a similar situation that an had a similar situation that an had a similar situation that an individual, you know, followed individual, you know, followed individual, you know, followed everything we told them to do, did all everything we told them to do, did all everything we told them to do, did all of the therapies, you know, was of the therapies, you know, was of the therapies, you know, was religious with the red light and the religious with the red light and the religious with the red light and the detox therapies that we had them doing detox therapies that we had them doing detox therapies that we had them doing at home, supplementation, and didn't at home, supplementation, and didn't at home, supplementation, and didn't yield the same type of results in 6 to yield the same type of results in 6 to yield the same type of results in 6 to 12 weeks. if anything felt a bit 12 weeks. if anything felt a bit 12 weeks. if anything felt a bit frustrated with the process because they frustrated with the process because they frustrated with the process because they were kept getting stuck. were kept getting stuck. were kept getting stuck. And the biggest thing we want to bring And the biggest thing we want to bring And the biggest thing we want to bring to you guys is that it's not about going to you guys is that it's not about going to you guys is that it's not about going balls to the wall balls to the wall balls to the wall because we work with a lot of people because we work with a lot of people because we work with a lot of people from from from New York, New Jersey, and you know, they New York, New Jersey, and you know, they New York, New Jersey, and you know, they have these strong personalities. They have these strong personalities. They have these strong personalities. They want to take the bull by the horns and want to take the bull by the horns and want to take the bull by the horns and they're like, "Just tell me what to do they're like, "Just tell me what to do they're like, "Just tell me what to do and I'll do it." And that's great. There and I'll do it." And that's great. There and I'll do it." And that's great. There is a level of discipline that will yield is a level of discipline that will yield is a level of discipline that will yield success in your health in a variety of success in your health in a variety of success in your health in a variety of areas of life. But there are other areas of life. But there are other areas of life. But there are other foundational components that are really foundational components that are really foundational components that are really what's going to lead to longterm what's going to lead to longterm what's going to lead to longterm outcomes, long-term success. It's it's outcomes, long-term success. It's it's outcomes, long-term success. It's it's like the the idea of of compounding on a like the the idea of of compounding on a like the the idea of of compounding on a strong foundation. strong foundation. strong foundation. And so Nick, you can tell me if you one And so Nick, you can tell me if you one And so Nick, you can tell me if you one want to elaborate on these or you feel want to elaborate on these or you feel want to elaborate on these or you feel like there was other components, but to like there was other components, but to like there was other components, but to me some of the the three core things me some of the the three core things me some of the the three core things that led to this individual's success in that led to this individual's success in that led to this individual's success in his health outcomes was one, openness. his health outcomes was one, openness. his health outcomes was one, openness. He had a very open mind, open to all He had a very open mind, open to all He had a very open mind, open to all possibilities, open to even the idea possibilities, open to even the idea possibilities, open to even the idea that this might not work. He wasn't that this might not work. He wasn't that this might not work. He wasn't putting pressure on this has to work. putting pressure on this has to work. putting pressure on this has to work. He's just like, I'm here. I've He's just like, I'm here. I've He's just like, I'm here. I've definitely tried things. I am getting definitely tried things. I am getting definitely tried things. I am getting nowhere and I am open to new ideas, new nowhere and I am open to new ideas, new nowhere and I am open to new ideas, new possibilities. I am open to the idea possibilities. I am open to the idea possibilities. I am open to the idea that this isn't even psoriasis, that that this isn't even psoriasis, that that this isn't even psoriasis, that this might be something [  ] else. I this might be something [  ] else. I this might be something [  ] else. I don't I don't know. I just am looking don't I don't know. I just am looking don't I don't know. I just am looking for direction and help. Which leads to for direction and help. Which leads to for direction and help. Which leads to the second which was trust. the second which was trust. the second which was trust. And I want to be very clear on what I And I want to be very clear on what I And I want to be very clear on what I mean by this. mean by this. mean by this. He relinquished He relinquished He relinquished control. Because people will say, "No, I control. Because people will say, "No, I control. Because people will say, "No, I trust you. That's why I'm on this phone trust you. That's why I'm on this phone trust you. That's why I'm on this phone call with you." But they will not always call with you." But they will not always call with you." But they will not always relinquish control. They still need to relinquish control. They still need to relinquish control. They still need to be in control of aspects of their be in control of aspects of their be in control of aspects of their healing and they don't surrender to the healing and they don't surrender to the healing and they don't surrender to the possibilities that maybe you're going to possibilities that maybe you're going to possibilities that maybe you're going to start supplements and maybe you're going start supplements and maybe you're going start supplements and maybe you're going to feel like [  ] Maybe you're going to to feel like [  ] Maybe you're going to to feel like [  ] Maybe you're going to start a detox protocol and maybe you're start a detox protocol and maybe you're start a detox protocol and maybe you're going to gain a couple pounds because going to gain a couple pounds because going to gain a couple pounds because you're going to have all of this you're going to have all of this you're going to have all of this inflammation that's going to increase inflammation that's going to increase inflammation that's going to increase before it decreases. and you you're before it decreases. and you you're before it decreases. and you you're relinquishing the idea that I'm going to relinquishing the idea that I'm going to relinquishing the idea that I'm going to control every little aspect of this and control every little aspect of this and control every little aspect of this and that I'm going to roll with the good and that I'm going to roll with the good and that I'm going to roll with the good and the bad and I'm going to trust in how the bad and I'm going to trust in how the bad and I'm going to trust in how you're guiding me and what you're you're guiding me and what you're you're guiding me and what you're telling me. telling me. telling me. The last one that I think is one of the The last one that I think is one of the The last one that I think is one of the most important is a vision beyond most important is a vision beyond most important is a vision beyond feeling better. feeling better. feeling better. a vision of being better, not just a vision of being better, not just a vision of being better, not just feeling better. This was an individual. feeling better. This was an individual. feeling better. This was an individual. We asked this question consistently on We asked this question consistently on We asked this question consistently on our getting acquainted calls. Why do you our getting acquainted calls. Why do you our getting acquainted calls. Why do you want to be better? I just want to feel want to be better? I just want to feel want to be better? I just want to feel better. That's not good enough. That's better. That's not good enough. That's better. That's not good enough. That's not good enough. I'm saying for us, it's not good enough. I'm saying for us, it's not good enough. I'm saying for us, it's not good enough to be the catalyst to not good enough to be the catalyst to not good enough to be the catalyst to healing. If you know how you're going to healing. If you know how you're going to healing. If you know how you're going to use your health, you're going to use use your health, you're going to use use your health, you're going to use your healthier brain, your healthier your healthier brain, your healthier your healthier brain, your healthier body, your healthier mind, body, your healthier mind, body, your healthier mind, that's where you're going to have more that's where you're going to have more that's where you're going to have more success. success. success. It's the vision beyond the vision. It's the vision beyond the vision. It's the vision beyond the vision. And he had a vision of who he was going And he had a vision of who he was going And he had a vision of who he was going to be for his family as a dad, as a to be for his family as a dad, as a to be for his family as a dad, as a husband husband husband when he was better. [Music] [Music] [Music] [  ] awesome is I just talked to him [  ] awesome is I just talked to him [  ] awesome is I just talked to him the other day and his wife actually the other day and his wife actually the other day and his wife actually chimed in and she said, "Um, I'm so chimed in and she said, "Um, I'm so chimed in and she said, "Um, I'm so emotional. going to get cureyed right emotional. going to get cureyed right emotional. going to get cureyed right now. now. now. But she's like, "I was watching him in But she's like, "I was watching him in But she's like, "I was watching him in the pool because they went on a vacation the pool because they went on a vacation the pool because they went on a vacation together." together." together." And I and she's like, "I realize that we And I and she's like, "I realize that we And I and she's like, "I realize that we would have been robbed of this would have been robbed of this would have been robbed of this experience, but because experience, but because experience, but because he's feeling better, he can move. He he's feeling better, he can move. He he's feeling better, he can move. He couldn't move cuz his skin would crack couldn't move cuz his skin would crack couldn't move cuz his skin would crack and he would bleed. Um, and the fact and he would bleed. Um, and the fact and he would bleed. Um, and the fact that he's in the pool, not ashamed of that he's in the pool, not ashamed of that he's in the pool, not ashamed of his body, playing with our kids, his body, playing with our kids, his body, playing with our kids, was one of the most amazing moments of was one of the most amazing moments of was one of the most amazing moments of my life. And that was really [  ] my life. And that was really [  ] my life. And that was really [  ] cool to hear. cool to hear. cool to hear. Yeah, it's uh I haven't heard that that Yeah, it's uh I haven't heard that that Yeah, it's uh I haven't heard that that that before. That's pretty awesome. Um that before. That's pretty awesome. Um that before. That's pretty awesome. Um you know, for for him, you know, say you know, for for him, you know, say you know, for for him, you know, say three things, the openness, the trust, three things, the openness, the trust, three things, the openness, the trust, and the vision beyond feeling better. Um and the vision beyond feeling better. Um and the vision beyond feeling better. Um but more just being better. And I don't but more just being better. And I don't but more just being better. And I don't disagree with any of those. Um, you disagree with any of those. Um, you disagree with any of those. Um, you know, it was and I think it's probably know, it was and I think it's probably know, it was and I think it's probably for him it was created in that order. I for him it was created in that order. I for him it was created in that order. I don't know if he said that specifically don't know if he said that specifically don't know if he said that specifically or not. Um but or not. Um but or not. Um but we initially he came in with that we initially he came in with that we initially he came in with that openness and that was that was what he openness and that was that was what he openness and that was that was what he had which was amazing because you know had which was amazing because you know had which was amazing because you know most people when they come they they most people when they come they they most people when they come they they want to get back to a point in their want to get back to a point in their want to get back to a point in their life of where they were. And that's life of where they were. And that's life of where they were. And that's always a downfall because always a downfall because always a downfall because yeah, yeah, yeah, anytime that we go backwards to who we anytime that we go backwards to who we anytime that we go backwards to who we were, well, that was the start of who we were, well, that was the start of who we were, well, that was the start of who we became. became. became. So if you're trying to ever get back to So if you're trying to ever get back to So if you're trying to ever get back to where you were in life, it's always where you were in life, it's always where you were in life, it's always going to be a downfall because that was going to be a downfall because that was going to be a downfall because that was a part of creating who you are today. So a part of creating who you are today. So a part of creating who you are today. So he was open initially from the he was open initially from the he was open initially from the standpoint to standpoint to standpoint to what do I have to do? What do I have to what do I have to do? What do I have to what do I have to do? What do I have to be? What do I have to learn? Like he was be? What do I have to learn? Like he was be? What do I have to learn? Like he was just open like he said to everything. just open like he said to everything. just open like he said to everything. And through that he didn't feel better. And through that he didn't feel better. And through that he didn't feel better. He became a different human being which He became a different human being which He became a different human being which allowed him to change which allowed him allowed him to change which allowed him allowed him to change which allowed him to feel better which is a completely to feel better which is a completely to feel better which is a completely different scenario. So there's that different scenario. So there's that different scenario. So there's that openness and then you know how we openness and then you know how we openness and then you know how we explain everything going through the explain everything going through the explain everything going through the psychosmatic aspects and connecting and psychosmatic aspects and connecting and psychosmatic aspects and connecting and challenging his old belief patterns that challenging his old belief patterns that challenging his old belief patterns that had been a part of creating that old had been a part of creating that old had been a part of creating that old version of himself that was creating version of himself that was creating version of himself that was creating that breakdown of the body to to that breakdown of the body to to that breakdown of the body to to challenge him to see different and then challenge him to see different and then challenge him to see different and then to become that different human. you to become that different human. you to become that different human. you know, allowed him to then have different know, allowed him to then have different know, allowed him to then have different experiences, like you said, going on experiences, like you said, going on experiences, like you said, going on vacation and being able to go in a pool, vacation and being able to go in a pool, vacation and being able to go in a pool, probably chlorine that's not actually probably chlorine that's not actually probably chlorine that's not actually that great for your skin. But he was that great for your skin. But he was that great for your skin. But he was strong enough and resilient enough. Not strong enough and resilient enough. Not strong enough and resilient enough. Not that, you know, he did things for his that, you know, he did things for his that, you know, he did things for his body, but he really understood that his body, but he really understood that his body, but he really understood that his body was just a a tool for him to be body was just a a tool for him to be body was just a a tool for him to be able to feel how well his mind was able to feel how well his mind was able to feel how well his mind was doing. because it's your mind that doing. because it's your mind that doing. because it's your mind that dictates 99.9% dictates the expression dictates 99.9% dictates the expression dictates 99.9% dictates the expression of the body. of the body. of the body. And it And it And it which is going to be an interesting which is going to be an interesting which is going to be an interesting story that we're going to get into story that we're going to get into story that we're going to get into momentarily. Nick doesn't even know momentarily. Nick doesn't even know momentarily. Nick doesn't even know where I'm going with this. By the way, where I'm going with this. By the way, where I'm going with this. By the way, we never talk before these podcasts. we never talk before these podcasts. we never talk before these podcasts. Yeah. It's and it works better better. Yeah. It's and it works better better. Yeah. It's and it works better better. It's real and raw. It's real and raw. It's real and raw. And that that was it was all of that And that that was it was all of that And that that was it was all of that that education that education that education and even going through what some people and even going through what some people and even going through what some people would talk about like the woowoo would talk about like the woowoo would talk about like the woowoo aspects, but having it be able to be aspects, but having it be able to be aspects, but having it be able to be backed by science and understanding backed by science and understanding backed by science and understanding to him understanding how powerful the to him understanding how powerful the to him understanding how powerful the mind is. And once he understood that and mind is. And once he understood that and mind is. And once he understood that and had the tools to be able to utilize the had the tools to be able to utilize the had the tools to be able to utilize the mind in a better, more efficient way for mind in a better, more efficient way for mind in a better, more efficient way for himself, well then the body was directed himself, well then the body was directed himself, well then the body was directed and responded accordingly. And that and responded accordingly. And that and responded accordingly. And that actually was a part of building the actually was a part of building the actually was a part of building the trust. And then like you talk about a trust. And then like you talk about a trust. And then like you talk about a vision beyond a vision. Once we helped vision beyond a vision. Once we helped vision beyond a vision. Once we helped them see that, that's what connects with them see that, that's what connects with them see that, that's what connects with your spirit. And you know, we've all your spirit. And you know, we've all your spirit. And you know, we've all heard of body, mind, spirit, but your heard of body, mind, spirit, but your heard of body, mind, spirit, but your spirit guides the mind and the mind spirit guides the mind and the mind spirit guides the mind and the mind directs the body. And it's the flow of directs the body. And it's the flow of directs the body. And it's the flow of energy above down, inside out. So once energy above down, inside out. So once energy above down, inside out. So once we helped him really understand and how we helped him really understand and how we helped him really understand and how to connect with the three tools that we to connect with the three tools that we to connect with the three tools that we have to experience life, the the spirit, have to experience life, the the spirit, have to experience life, the the spirit, the mind, and the body, and to use those the mind, and the body, and to use those the mind, and the body, and to use those tools efficiently to serve himself, well tools efficiently to serve himself, well tools efficiently to serve himself, well then his quality of life just got then his quality of life just got then his quality of life just got better, better, better, and it just want to say about what and it just want to say about what and it just want to say about what you're describing that I think is really you're describing that I think is really you're describing that I think is really important. Um, and it goes along with important. Um, and it goes along with important. Um, and it goes along with everything that we mentioned with the everything that we mentioned with the everything that we mentioned with the the three keys to success, the openness, the three keys to success, the openness, the three keys to success, the openness, trust, and vision beyond the vision. But trust, and vision beyond the vision. But trust, and vision beyond the vision. But when we started to do the work with him, when we started to do the work with him, when we started to do the work with him, this is part of that relinquishing this is part of that relinquishing this is part of that relinquishing control. He was willing to be extremely control. He was willing to be extremely control. He was willing to be extremely extremely vulnerable. extremely vulnerable. extremely vulnerable. when we were helping to do the work when we were helping to do the work when we were helping to do the work around releasing things, around releasing things, around releasing things, past experiences, emotional adversities, past experiences, emotional adversities, past experiences, emotional adversities, traumas, if you want to call them that, traumas, if you want to call them that, traumas, if you want to call them that, that were experienced in the past that that were experienced in the past that that were experienced in the past that were a contributing factor to the first were a contributing factor to the first were a contributing factor to the first time that he had skin issues, which was time that he had skin issues, which was time that he had skin issues, which was literally as a small child. But he was literally as a small child. But he was literally as a small child. But he was not coming from a place of such not coming from a place of such not coming from a place of such significant guilt and shame that he was significant guilt and shame that he was significant guilt and shame that he was not willing to be vulnerable. He was not willing to be vulnerable. He was not willing to be vulnerable. He was willing to be vulnerable with willing to be vulnerable with willing to be vulnerable with experiences that he had that that experiences that he had that that experiences that he had that that allowed him, again, this is going back allowed him, again, this is going back allowed him, again, this is going back to that openness. It was like, if this to that openness. It was like, if this to that openness. It was like, if this is going to help me, I'm willing to go is going to help me, I'm willing to go is going to help me, I'm willing to go there. And and that's not something that there. And and that's not something that there. And and that's not something that we experience often. We've actually we experience often. We've actually we experience often. We've actually modified how we do our onboarding modified how we do our onboarding modified how we do our onboarding process. Essentially, the process where, process. Essentially, the process where, process. Essentially, the process where, you know, we we figure everything out. you know, we we figure everything out. you know, we we figure everything out. And we've modified that so that we could And we've modified that so that we could And we've modified that so that we could dig a bit deeper when it comes to dig a bit deeper when it comes to dig a bit deeper when it comes to experiences all the way down to experiences all the way down to experiences all the way down to childhood that could be contributing to childhood that could be contributing to childhood that could be contributing to the compounding of decreased health or the compounding of decreased health or the compounding of decreased health or health issues. And it's because health issues. And it's because health issues. And it's because sometimes, you know, you see people hit sometimes, you know, you see people hit sometimes, you know, you see people hit a plateau. And, you know, people are not a plateau. And, you know, people are not a plateau. And, you know, people are not willing to relinquish that control or willing to relinquish that control or willing to relinquish that control or they're not willing to be vulnerable they're not willing to be vulnerable they're not willing to be vulnerable enough based off of guilt and shame that enough based off of guilt and shame that enough based off of guilt and shame that they have from past experiences in order they have from past experiences in order they have from past experiences in order to break through that glass ceiling. to break through that glass ceiling. to break through that glass ceiling. And and I do think that that was another And and I do think that that was another And and I do think that that was another factor in why he was able to elevate his factor in why he was able to elevate his factor in why he was able to elevate his mind so quickly because he broke the mind so quickly because he broke the mind so quickly because he broke the chains of the past through the work that chains of the past through the work that chains of the past through the work that we do. we do. we do. Yeah. It's I mean I don't know how deep Yeah. It's I mean I don't know how deep Yeah. It's I mean I don't know how deep you want me to get. As usual, I like to you want me to get. As usual, I like to you want me to get. As usual, I like to go deeper than people give a an F about. go deeper than people give a an F about. go deeper than people give a an F about. Um, but it's, you know, the quantum part Um, but it's, you know, the quantum part Um, but it's, you know, the quantum part of life is, you know, there's the past, of life is, you know, there's the past, of life is, you know, there's the past, there's the present, and there's the there's the present, and there's the there's the present, and there's the future, but they're all happening at the future, but they're all happening at the future, but they're all happening at the same time. So, we can, we can only, same time. So, we can, we can only, same time. So, we can, we can only, we're dictated by our past and our we're dictated by our past and our we're dictated by our past and our future. And simple way to put it is like future. And simple way to put it is like future. And simple way to put it is like you were talked about, it's like you you were talked about, it's like you you were talked about, it's like you have to quote unquote heal the past. But have to quote unquote heal the past. But have to quote unquote heal the past. But healing the past, the the funny part healing the past, the the funny part healing the past, the the funny part about it is there's really nothing to about it is there's really nothing to about it is there's really nothing to heal cuz the past was actually perfect. heal cuz the past was actually perfect. heal cuz the past was actually perfect. And once we can see it for being And once we can see it for being And once we can see it for being perfect, well, then we're actually just perfect, well, then we're actually just perfect, well, then we're actually just grateful for it because we've grown our grateful for it because we've grown our grateful for it because we've grown our awareness and changed our perception to awareness and changed our perception to awareness and changed our perception to not be a victim of it, but to know how not be a victim of it, but to know how not be a victim of it, but to know how to actually use it to serve ourselves. to actually use it to serve ourselves. to actually use it to serve ourselves. So, there's not really anything to heal. So, there's not really anything to heal. So, there's not really anything to heal. Um, which is the interesting part of Um, which is the interesting part of Um, which is the interesting part of everybody's trying to heal the past everybody's trying to heal the past everybody's trying to heal the past right now. And because that just means right now. And because that just means right now. And because that just means you're a victim. So that that lets him you're a victim. So that that lets him you're a victim. So that that lets him close close close [  ] mic dropped that real quick. [  ] mic dropped that real quick. [  ] mic dropped that real quick. We're gonna move on. We're gonna move on. We're gonna move on. That lets that gave him the freedom to That lets that gave him the freedom to That lets that gave him the freedom to be able to move forward. But if you be able to move forward. But if you be able to move forward. But if you don't have clarity and the sense of don't have clarity and the sense of don't have clarity and the sense of direction quote unquote of your future, direction quote unquote of your future, direction quote unquote of your future, you know, there's no you're going to be you know, there's no you're going to be you know, there's no you're going to be dictated. you live in the past, then dictated. you live in the past, then dictated. you live in the past, then you're going to be dictated by the past, you're going to be dictated by the past, you're going to be dictated by the past, but also you're going to be dictated by but also you're going to be dictated by but also you're going to be dictated by your environment, the people around you, your environment, the people around you, your environment, the people around you, the space around you, everything. Unless the space around you, everything. Unless the space around you, everything. Unless you have such a strong sense of you have such a strong sense of you have such a strong sense of direction of your future, direction of your future, direction of your future, and that's the vision beyond the vision. and that's the vision beyond the vision. and that's the vision beyond the vision. So, so once he released himself of the So, so once he released himself of the So, so once he released himself of the shackles of the past and he actually shackles of the past and he actually shackles of the past and he actually gave himself a new foundation in the gave himself a new foundation in the gave himself a new foundation in the future, well then he could just be future, well then he could just be future, well then he could just be present with himself and he could be present with himself and he could be present with himself and he could be present with his kids because he didn't present with his kids because he didn't present with his kids because he didn't have the fear, didn't have the worry, have the fear, didn't have the worry, have the fear, didn't have the worry, wasn't carrying like any of that shame wasn't carrying like any of that shame wasn't carrying like any of that shame or guilt. Like none of all of that is or guilt. Like none of all of that is or guilt. Like none of all of that is just a feedback mechanism that we're not just a feedback mechanism that we're not just a feedback mechanism that we're not grounded and authentic to who we truly grounded and authentic to who we truly grounded and authentic to who we truly are. are. are. It's interesting this ph uh phrase It's interesting this ph uh phrase It's interesting this ph uh phrase saying that I just heard that is so saying that I just heard that is so saying that I just heard that is so congruent with what you're saying is congruent with what you're saying is congruent with what you're saying is stop fixing and start building. You stop fixing and start building. You stop fixing and start building. You know, if we can spend a lifetime trying know, if we can spend a lifetime trying know, if we can spend a lifetime trying to fix ourselves or fix the past or or to fix ourselves or fix the past or or to fix ourselves or fix the past or or fix and improve the old template, but fix and improve the old template, but fix and improve the old template, but sometimes you just need to burn the sometimes you just need to burn the sometimes you just need to burn the [  ] template and build from the [  ] template and build from the [  ] template and build from the ground up. ground up. ground up. And and I I say that And and I I say that And and I I say that everything's a everything's a halftruth. everything's a everything's a halftruth. everything's a everything's a halftruth. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yeah. But but I you know I just for some Yeah. But but I you know I just for some Yeah. But but I you know I just for some people that will resonate really well people that will resonate really well people that will resonate really well and and for some it won't. But you know and and for some it won't. But you know and and for some it won't. But you know sometimes when you just feel so [  ] sometimes when you just feel so [  ] sometimes when you just feel so [  ] stuck and paralyzed by your pa past like stuck and paralyzed by your pa past like stuck and paralyzed by your pa past like just understanding that you know just understanding that you know just understanding that you know everything could change tomorrow if you everything could change tomorrow if you everything could change tomorrow if you if you choose that. You know if you say if you choose that. You know if you say if you choose that. You know if you say I'm [  ] done being this. I'm done I'm [  ] done being this. I'm done I'm [  ] done being this. I'm done feeling sorry for myself. I'm done being feeling sorry for myself. I'm done being feeling sorry for myself. I'm done being being the victim. You know, you know, being the victim. You know, you know, being the victim. You know, you know, just you don't always have to have this just you don't always have to have this just you don't always have to have this master plan and do [  ] 25 inner master plan and do [  ] 25 inner master plan and do [ __ ] 25 inner child healings. Like, you know, like child healings. Like, you know, like child healings. Like, you know, like sometimes you can just make a very bold sometimes you can just make a very bold sometimes you can just make a very bold choice in your life and start being choice in your life and start being choice in your life and start being that new version of yourself. So, I'm that new version of yourself. So, I'm that new version of yourself. So, I'm not saying that's easy by any means. not saying that's easy by any means. not saying that's easy by any means. Optimal growth is a balance of challenge Optimal growth is a balance of challenge Optimal growth is a balance of challenge and support. So, it's it's it's never and support. So, it's it's it's never and support. So, it's it's it's never it's never a one-sided view of, you it's never a one-sided view of, you it's never a one-sided view of, you know, not working on the past and only know, not working on the past and only know, not working on the past and only working in the future or only working on working in the future or only working on working in the future or only working on the future and not the past. Um, it's the future and not the past. Um, it's the future and not the past. Um, it's really just about getting both to a really just about getting both to a really just about getting both to a point where your past and your future point where your past and your future point where your past and your future are serving you so you can just be here are serving you so you can just be here are serving you so you can just be here now in the present. Um, and that's what now in the present. Um, and that's what now in the present. Um, and that's what that's what actually allows one to truly that's what actually allows one to truly that's what actually allows one to truly heal because that's when they're the heal because that's when they're the heal because that's when they're the only time you're truly present is when only time you're truly present is when only time you're truly present is when you're grateful. you're grateful. you're grateful. Um, and when you're grateful, that's Um, and when you're grateful, that's Um, and when you're grateful, that's that's when you're present with your that's when you're present with your that's when you're present with your kids. That's when the wife sees that kids. That's when the wife sees that kids. That's when the wife sees that everything's perfect and she has tears everything's perfect and she has tears everything's perfect and she has tears of gratitude to to seeing that there's of gratitude to to seeing that there's of gratitude to to seeing that there's absolutely nothing wrong with this path. absolutely nothing wrong with this path. absolutely nothing wrong with this path. this helped him become the best version this helped him become the best version this helped him become the best version of himself, which is beautiful, which is of himself, which is beautiful, which is of himself, which is beautiful, which is why she had tears. why she had tears. why she had tears. Um, yeah, it's that's that's where we Um, yeah, it's that's that's where we Um, yeah, it's that's that's where we that's the goal in life. that's the goal in life. that's the goal in life. Well, because we always want to ground Well, because we always want to ground Well, because we always want to ground this into reality. We want to be this into reality. We want to be this into reality. We want to be transparent about the fact that this transparent about the fact that this transparent about the fact that this individual got fan fuckingtastic individual got fan fuckingtastic individual got fan fuckingtastic results, but we also have worked with results, but we also have worked with results, but we also have worked with another case of another case of another case of it wasn't technically psoriasis, but it it wasn't technically psoriasis, but it it wasn't technically psoriasis, but it was extreme extreme um eczema. was extreme extreme um eczema. was extreme extreme um eczema. It was a young girl and she got no It was a young girl and she got no It was a young girl and she got no results. And we want to share this results. And we want to share this results. And we want to share this primarily because we're talking about primarily because we're talking about primarily because we're talking about how this individual, you know, the how this individual, you know, the how this individual, you know, the vision beyond the vision, relinquishing vision beyond the vision, relinquishing vision beyond the vision, relinquishing control being a core factor, and the control being a core factor, and the control being a core factor, and the fact that he was able to free his mind, fact that he was able to free his mind, fact that he was able to free his mind, elevate his mind, which also played a elevate his mind, which also played a elevate his mind, which also played a role in his physical body healing. Don't role in his physical body healing. Don't role in his physical body healing. Don't get me wrong, we did a variety of get me wrong, we did a variety of get me wrong, we did a variety of physical types of therapies, detox physical types of therapies, detox physical types of therapies, detox therapies, and it was the two worlds therapies, and it was the two worlds therapies, and it was the two worlds coming together that yielded the results coming together that yielded the results coming together that yielded the results that it did. And so with this individual that it did. And so with this individual that it did. And so with this individual that didn't get results, that didn't get results, that didn't get results, it was a young girl, so you know, we it was a young girl, so you know, we it was a young girl, so you know, we definitely there there was a little bit definitely there there was a little bit definitely there there was a little bit of a struggle with being able to pull of a struggle with being able to pull of a struggle with being able to pull things out that were of value just things out that were of value just things out that were of value just because of the emotional maturity. But because of the emotional maturity. But because of the emotional maturity. But essentially what it came down to is yes essentially what it came down to is yes essentially what it came down to is yes there were physical components. Yes, there were physical components. Yes, there were physical components. Yes, there was mold toxicity. Yes, there was there was mold toxicity. Yes, there was there was mold toxicity. Yes, there was gut dispiosis. There were all of those gut dispiosis. There were all of those gut dispiosis. There were all of those things. And you know those things when things. And you know those things when things. And you know those things when it comes to our protocols, that's the it comes to our protocols, that's the it comes to our protocols, that's the easy part to be honest. And then easy part to be honest. And then easy part to be honest. And then there was the mental emotional and what there was the mental emotional and what there was the mental emotional and what was on the surface. She was struggling was on the surface. She was struggling was on the surface. She was struggling in school. She was struggling with being in school. She was struggling with being in school. She was struggling with being bullied. She was struggling to the point bullied. She was struggling to the point bullied. She was struggling to the point that they um moved her to a different that they um moved her to a different that they um moved her to a different school because there were girls that school because there were girls that school because there were girls that were bullying her, she was getting into were bullying her, she was getting into were bullying her, she was getting into physical fights at school, etc. physical fights at school, etc. physical fights at school, etc. And so And so And so when we started to ask better questions, when we started to ask better questions, when we started to ask better questions, one of the things that she said, and it one of the things that she said, and it one of the things that she said, and it was very quick and very almost was very quick and very almost was very quick and very almost nonchalant, nonchalant, nonchalant, was, "Well, was, "Well, was, "Well, I rather have skin issues so that I'm I rather have skin issues so that I'm I rather have skin issues so that I'm the one who gets bullied as long as the one who gets bullied as long as the one who gets bullied as long as everyone leaves my brother and sister everyone leaves my brother and sister everyone leaves my brother and sister alone." And essentially, we say this, and this And essentially, we say this, and this And essentially, we say this, and this can sometimes trigger people, that can sometimes trigger people, that can sometimes trigger people, that sometimes our health is at a standstill, sometimes our health is at a standstill, sometimes our health is at a standstill, and we're in poor health because we're and we're in poor health because we're and we're in poor health because we're using it. And some people are using poor using it. And some people are using poor using it. And some people are using poor health because it gets them love. They health because it gets them love. They health because it gets them love. They they get a lot of attention. They get a they get a lot of attention. They get a they get a lot of attention. They get a lot of support because they are the sick lot of support because they are the sick lot of support because they are the sick one. one. one. Some people they get some type of Some people they get some type of Some people they get some type of financial support because they are financial support because they are financial support because they are unable to work. They're unable to unable to work. They're unable to unable to work. They're unable to function. So sometimes there's those function. So sometimes there's those function. So sometimes there's those types of scenarios. types of scenarios. types of scenarios. But then there are other types of But then there are other types of But then there are other types of scenarios. There are infinite amounts of scenarios. There are infinite amounts of scenarios. There are infinite amounts of scenarios. And for this specific scenarios. And for this specific scenarios. And for this specific individual, she was creating a a individual, she was creating a a individual, she was creating a a protection to her siblings. and she was protection to her siblings. and she was protection to her siblings. and she was essentially using h her physical skin essentially using h her physical skin essentially using h her physical skin issues as a way to create a distraction issues as a way to create a distraction issues as a way to create a distraction from her brother's brother and sister from her brother's brother and sister from her brother's brother and sister being bullied. being bullied. being bullied. And this was something that she was just And this was something that she was just And this was something that she was just not willing to work on. and mom and dad not willing to work on. and mom and dad not willing to work on. and mom and dad actually moved her multiple times to actually moved her multiple times to actually moved her multiple times to multiple different schools because she multiple different schools because she multiple different schools because she was consistently getting into fights and was consistently getting into fights and was consistently getting into fights and being bullied and it was all because of being bullied and it was all because of being bullied and it was all because of her skin. So, they were focused on the her skin. So, they were focused on the her skin. So, they were focused on the skin being the problem, but it was skin being the problem, but it was skin being the problem, but it was actually the mindset of this individual actually the mindset of this individual actually the mindset of this individual wanting to protect her brother and wanting to protect her brother and wanting to protect her brother and sister that was a contributor to the sister that was a contributor to the sister that was a contributor to the skin and obviously the external skin and obviously the external skin and obviously the external circumstances. I'm not going to get deeper in that I'm not going to get deeper in that I'm not going to get deeper in that because it goes a lot deeper. because it goes a lot deeper. because it goes a lot deeper. Share share one level of deepness. The The The foundationally the programs of children foundationally the programs of children foundationally the programs of children are for the most part developed by are for the most part developed by are for the most part developed by you know the the parents. you know the the parents. you know the the parents. more than that, you know, there is the more than that, you know, there is the more than that, you know, there is the school system depending on how younger school system depending on how younger school system depending on how younger they're in. There's, you know, religious they're in. There's, you know, religious they're in. There's, you know, religious systems depending on how young they systems depending on how young they systems depending on how young they start. There's a lot of different start. There's a lot of different start. There's a lot of different systems. Um, but it's more of the family systems. Um, but it's more of the family systems. Um, but it's more of the family system that's probably the biggest uh system that's probably the biggest uh system that's probably the biggest uh driver of uh belief systems for for driver of uh belief systems for for driver of uh belief systems for for children. And it it's not always the children. And it it's not always the children. And it it's not always the same belief system as the parents. You same belief system as the parents. You same belief system as the parents. You know, sometimes it's it's the exact know, sometimes it's it's the exact know, sometimes it's it's the exact opposite. Um but it's it's those drivers opposite. Um but it's it's those drivers opposite. Um but it's it's those drivers that either create you know the value or that either create you know the value or that either create you know the value or the void um based on the perception of the void um based on the perception of the void um based on the perception of the child and based on pain or pleasure the child and based on pain or pleasure the child and based on pain or pleasure of what's happening um within that one. of what's happening um within that one. of what's happening um within that one. But then there's the interesting aspect But then there's the interesting aspect But then there's the interesting aspect of looking at it through genetics and of looking at it through genetics and of looking at it through genetics and you know we had a conversation the other you know we had a conversation the other you know we had a conversation the other day is that you know you know half of my day is that you know you know half of my day is that you know you know half of my gene half of your gene are in our gene half of your gene are in our gene half of your gene are in our children and you know my dad your dad children and you know my dad your dad children and you know my dad your dad roughly a quarter of their genes are in roughly a quarter of their genes are in roughly a quarter of their genes are in our children. And our children. And our children. And when the way genes work is there's when the way genes work is there's when the way genes work is there's always a suppression repression you know always a suppression repression you know always a suppression repression you know it's like are is that gene dormant or is it's like are is that gene dormant or is it's like are is that gene dormant or is it active uh expressing itself and you it active uh expressing itself and you it active uh expressing itself and you know sometimes there's that things are know sometimes there's that things are know sometimes there's that things are skipped generational traits etc um that skipped generational traits etc um that skipped generational traits etc um that we can actually physically map out we can actually physically map out we can actually physically map out looking at the genome but a lot of those looking at the genome but a lot of those looking at the genome but a lot of those suppressions and activations suppressions and activations suppressions and activations is is is all based on the mental perception um all based on the mental perception um all based on the mental perception um because that's what actually goes because that's what actually goes because that's what actually goes through and creates that first um actual through and creates that first um actual through and creates that first um actual energetic charge and it's the charge energetic charge and it's the charge energetic charge and it's the charge that is either activating or making a that is either activating or making a that is either activating or making a gene dormant or not. gene dormant or not. gene dormant or not. So it's it's the charge but the charge So it's it's the charge but the charge So it's it's the charge but the charge is actually a mental charge and that's is actually a mental charge and that's is actually a mental charge and that's based off of did was this beneficial or based off of did was this beneficial or based off of did was this beneficial or was this you know detrimental. was this you know detrimental. was this you know detrimental. Yeah. and and that is passed along Yeah. and and that is passed along Yeah. and and that is passed along generation to generation to generation. generation to generation to generation. generation to generation to generation. So So So part of it is, you know, how she was part of it is, you know, how she was part of it is, you know, how she was looking at and coming up as a victim, looking at and coming up as a victim, looking at and coming up as a victim, but getting deeper into it, there is but getting deeper into it, there is but getting deeper into it, there is actually more of a a history, a lineage actually more of a a history, a lineage actually more of a a history, a lineage of that belief system coming into play of that belief system coming into play of that belief system coming into play for her to have the opportunity to for her to have the opportunity to for her to have the opportunity to actually heal generational actually heal generational actually heal generational shitty belief systems before her, which shitty belief systems before her, which shitty belief systems before her, which is crazy. is crazy. is crazy. Well, it's interesting you say that too Well, it's interesting you say that too Well, it's interesting you say that too because there was some level of skin because there was some level of skin because there was some level of skin issues in multiple generations from her issues in multiple generations from her issues in multiple generations from her mom to grandma, but nothing was severe mom to grandma, but nothing was severe mom to grandma, but nothing was severe but there was that expression and then but there was that expression and then but there was that expression and then obviously there is the behavioral obviously there is the behavioral obviously there is the behavioral uh expression generation to generation. uh expression generation to generation. uh expression generation to generation. Um, so yes, that's the thing is, you Um, so yes, that's the thing is, you Um, so yes, that's the thing is, you know, I think the way that the world in know, I think the way that the world in know, I think the way that the world in conventional medicine is looking at conventional medicine is looking at conventional medicine is looking at genetics is is such a skewed perspective genetics is is such a skewed perspective genetics is is such a skewed perspective because it it's essentially creating the because it it's essentially creating the because it it's essentially creating the idea that, you know, bad genes, bad luck idea that, you know, bad genes, bad luck idea that, you know, bad genes, bad luck or, you know, bad genes, bad health. And or, you know, bad genes, bad health. And or, you know, bad genes, bad health. And really, it's all about the expression really, it's all about the expression really, it's all about the expression because things can be activated, things because things can be activated, things because things can be activated, things can be silenced and that has so much to can be silenced and that has so much to can be silenced and that has so much to do with how you think and also your do with how you think and also your do with how you think and also your environment and what you put in to your environment and what you put in to your environment and what you put in to your body. So, there's a lot of variables body. So, there's a lot of variables body. So, there's a lot of variables that can put you back into the driver's that can put you back into the driver's that can put you back into the driver's seat of your health outcomes regardless seat of your health outcomes regardless seat of your health outcomes regardless of your your genome and and the you know of your your genome and and the you know of your your genome and and the you know the bad family genes quote unquote. the bad family genes quote unquote. the bad family genes quote unquote. So what we want to kind of circle this So what we want to kind of circle this So what we want to kind of circle this back to is number one, there are those back to is number one, there are those back to is number one, there are those three foundational factors that you need three foundational factors that you need three foundational factors that you need to think about when it comes to why you to think about when it comes to why you to think about when it comes to why you might be stuck in your health or you might be stuck in your health or you might be stuck in your health or you know why you're not making any progress know why you're not making any progress know why you're not making any progress with your health. You know, do you have with your health. You know, do you have with your health. You know, do you have an openness to the possibilities? Are an openness to the possibilities? Are an openness to the possibilities? Are you relinquishing control or are you you relinquishing control or are you you relinquishing control or are you still trying to control in some still trying to control in some still trying to control in some capacity? And is that control paralyzing capacity? And is that control paralyzing capacity? And is that control paralyzing you? And one of the big ones is, do you you? And one of the big ones is, do you you? And one of the big ones is, do you have a vision beyond less symptoms? Do have a vision beyond less symptoms? Do have a vision beyond less symptoms? Do you have a vision of being a better you have a vision of being a better you have a vision of being a better version of yourself version of yourself version of yourself with your new reclaimed with your new reclaimed with your new reclaimed or I don't want to even say say either or I don't want to even say say either or I don't want to even say say either your new health or your reclaimed health your new health or your reclaimed health your new health or your reclaimed health and you know I really I think the final and you know I really I think the final and you know I really I think the final significant question is what if your significant question is what if your significant question is what if your body's symptoms are actually body's symptoms are actually body's symptoms are actually serving you serving you serving you in some capacity at this time? you know, in some capacity at this time? you know, in some capacity at this time? you know, is it trying to tell you something? Is is it trying to tell you something? Is is it trying to tell you something? Is it trying to open your eyes to it trying to open your eyes to it trying to open your eyes to something? Is it trying to deliver a something? Is it trying to deliver a something? Is it trying to deliver a lesson to you? And you know, and is is lesson to you? And you know, and is is lesson to you? And you know, and is is healing really truly just about healing really truly just about healing really truly just about discipline? You know, from the 10 over discipline? You know, from the 10 over discipline? You know, from the 10 over 10 years that we've been doing this, 10 years that we've been doing this, 10 years that we've been doing this, this isn't about being the a student. this isn't about being the a student. this isn't about being the a student. This isn't necessarily just about I did This isn't necessarily just about I did This isn't necessarily just about I did all the supplements and I did the diet all the supplements and I did the diet all the supplements and I did the diet and I cut all the things out and I cut all the things out and I cut all the things out because there are people that have done because there are people that have done because there are people that have done that and gotten no results or limited that and gotten no results or limited that and gotten no results or limited results. So, this isn't about doing more results. So, this isn't about doing more results. So, this isn't about doing more and you've probably heard us say this and you've probably heard us say this and you've probably heard us say this before. This isn't always about doing before. This isn't always about doing before. This isn't always about doing more. It's the same idea in business. more. It's the same idea in business. more. It's the same idea in business. Just because you do more or you hustle Just because you do more or you hustle Just because you do more or you hustle harder doesn't make you wealthier. some harder doesn't make you wealthier. some harder doesn't make you wealthier. some of the wealthiest people in the world, of the wealthiest people in the world, of the wealthiest people in the world, it's because of how they think. it's because of how they think. it's because of how they think. And so really what it comes down to is And so really what it comes down to is And so really what it comes down to is how do you think about yourself? How do how do you think about yourself? How do how do you think about yourself? How do you think about your health? You know, you think about your health? You know, you think about your health? You know, why do you want to be well? Nick's pause. Okay. I was like I was Nick's pause. Okay. I was like I was Nick's pause. Okay. I was like I was like I don't know. He's has got like I don't know. He's has got like I don't know. He's has got something brewing over there. No, it's I mean life is a feedback No, it's I mean life is a feedback No, it's I mean life is a feedback mechanism. You know, I I try to look mechanism. You know, I I try to look mechanism. You know, I I try to look objectively as possible because for the objectively as possible because for the objectively as possible because for the most part what I do all day with people most part what I do all day with people most part what I do all day with people is subjective, deal with their is subjective, deal with their is subjective, deal with their subjectivity. Um, and the only way subjectivity. Um, and the only way subjectivity. Um, and the only way around that is to be like a scientist around that is to be like a scientist around that is to be like a scientist and be truly objective. So the more and be truly objective. So the more and be truly objective. So the more objective we are quote unquote, the more objective we are quote unquote, the more objective we are quote unquote, the more truth u we have, the more information we truth u we have, the more information we truth u we have, the more information we have that's balanced on both sides of have that's balanced on both sides of have that's balanced on both sides of that spectrum. And when we can see that spectrum. And when we can see that spectrum. And when we can see everything is just a feedback mechanism, everything is just a feedback mechanism, everything is just a feedback mechanism, well then nothing's really honestly like well then nothing's really honestly like well then nothing's really honestly like good or bad. It's just a feedback and good or bad. It's just a feedback and good or bad. It's just a feedback and saying, "Hey, is this working for me or saying, "Hey, is this working for me or saying, "Hey, is this working for me or is this not working for me?" And if if is this not working for me?" And if if is this not working for me?" And if if you weren't so attached to it, hence you weren't so attached to it, hence you weren't so attached to it, hence Buddha says, all of our suffering is due Buddha says, all of our suffering is due Buddha says, all of our suffering is due to our attachments. if we weren't to our attachments. if we weren't to our attachments. if we weren't attached to it and we're just like, attached to it and we're just like, attached to it and we're just like, "Okay, I need to change this to get a "Okay, I need to change this to get a "Okay, I need to change this to get a different result, a different feeling." different result, a different feeling." different result, a different feeling." The feeling is just the effect from The feeling is just the effect from The feeling is just the effect from really our mindset. Um, but our really our mindset. Um, but our really our mindset. Um, but our thoughts, so if something's not working thoughts, so if something's not working thoughts, so if something's not working out, well, we need to change our out, well, we need to change our out, well, we need to change our thought, which dictates our actions. And thought, which dictates our actions. And thought, which dictates our actions. And our actions is what gives us the our actions is what gives us the our actions is what gives us the feeling. And then if that feeling is feeling. And then if that feeling is feeling. And then if that feeling is working out for us, let's continue and working out for us, let's continue and working out for us, let's continue and do more of that. that's not working out do more of that. that's not working out do more of that. that's not working out for us. Well, we needed to go back up for us. Well, we needed to go back up for us. Well, we needed to go back up that river and figure out what thoughts that river and figure out what thoughts that river and figure out what thoughts are causing us um suffering are causing us um suffering are causing us um suffering 100%. 100%. 100%. All right, guys. Well, we hope you All right, guys. Well, we hope you All right, guys. Well, we hope you enjoyed this and we want to just enjoyed this and we want to just enjoyed this and we want to just reiterate true health is not about being reiterate true health is not about being reiterate true health is not about being perfect or being a perfect patient, perfect or being a perfect patient, perfect or being a perfect patient, being the a student and this is really being the a student and this is really being the a student and this is really just leading with creating a just leading with creating a just leading with creating a relationship with a doctor practice team relationship with a doctor practice team relationship with a doctor practice team that you can have enough trust to that you can have enough trust to that you can have enough trust to relinquish that control. You have the relinquish that control. You have the relinquish that control. You have the vision that is bigger than resolution of vision that is bigger than resolution of vision that is bigger than resolution of symptoms symptoms symptoms and being open and also that openness is and being open and also that openness is and being open and also that openness is is about trying to remove some of the is about trying to remove some of the is about trying to remove some of the things that are creating fear aka your things that are creating fear aka your things that are creating fear aka your Google searches and your web empty Google searches and your web empty Google searches and your web empty searches. searches. searches. We're going to end it there. That's a We're going to end it there. That's a We're going to end it there. That's a whole another podcast. whole another podcast. whole another podcast. We're going to end it there. Um, but if We're going to end it there. Um, but if We're going to end it there. 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