Couples Decode
$47 · one-time
The fight isn't
about the dishes.
Stop performing "fine." In 15 minutes, see your Relationship Health Score, your communication archetype, and the exact friction triggers you've been blaming on everything else.
Honest. Fully automated. Built by a doctor — delivered without a couch.
$47 credited toward the full Couples & Family system • No subscription
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Peek Inside a Real Report
Fictional couple, real analysis framework. This is the level of insight your Decode delivers.
The $47 Relationship Decode
A relationship health check that maps your communication patterns, values friction, and conflict dynamics — before things break.
Relationship snapshot — communication archetypes + friction mapping
Relationship Health Score: 62/100
Alex and Jordan score 62/100 on Relationship Health — not crisis territory, but the cracks are widening. Their communication styles are fundamentally mismatched: Alex processes externally (talks to think), while Jordan processes internally (needs silence before responding). Neither is wrong — but without understanding this dynamic, every disagreement feels like rejection.
Friction Map: 3 Zones Identified
Three core friction zones identified: 1. 💰 Money — Alex views spending as freedom; Jordan views it as security. Neither has articulated their inherited money story. 2. 👨👩👧 Parenting — Jordan's boundary-setting looks like 'coldness' to Alex. They're parenting from two different emotional playbooks. 3. 🗣️ Conflict style — Alex escalates to resolve; Jordan withdraws to protect. Classic pursuer-distancer loop.
Communication Archetype: Advocate × Architect
Alex: The Advocate — leads with emotion, seeks immediate resolution, interprets silence as abandonment. Jordan: The Architect — leads with logic, needs processing time, interprets intensity as attack. This isn't a personality flaw — it's a nervous system mismatch. The loop is predictable and breakable once both partners see the pattern.
7-Day Communication Protocol
What Full Alignment Reveals
Your Report Preview
What Your Couples Report Looks Like
Delivered within 48 hours — personalized to both partners' answers, not templated relationship advice.
Couples Decode — Relationship Health Check
Partner A & Partner B
68
Health Score / 100
Relationship Health Score — 4 Axes
Composite score across Communication (71/100), Values Alignment (64/100), Conflict Resolution (58/100), and Emotional Safety (73/100). Your bottleneck axis is pulling the others down — fix that one first.
Communication Archetype & Patterns
You lead as The Peacekeeper under stress — your nervous system defaults to appease-then-resent. Your partner's style collides as The Prosecutor, creating a pursue-withdraw loop that escalates every 72 hours…
Top 3 Friction Triggers
Trigger 1 — the recurring loop around ████████ is rooted in an unmet need for ████████. Trigger 2 — financial decisions…
Attachment Pattern Collision Map
Your style maps to ████████, colliding with your partner's ████████. This creates a predictable 4-stage conflict cycle…
Values Alignment & Blind Spots
Core values overlap: 3 of 5 shared. Critical divergence on ████████ creates invisible friction in daily decisions…
Shared Non-Negotiables (Us Rules)
Auto-extracted relationship operating principles — weekly partner check-off tracking for accountability…
One Practice You Start Tonight
A 7-minute repair ritual built for your specific friction profile — with a script, cadence, and de-escalation sequence…
Boundary & Money Map Add-Ons
Optional deep-dives: financial decision framework + boundary style analysis mapped to your specific triggers…
🔒 Full report unlocked after both partners complete the 15-minute assessment
The Problem
Couples therapy looked at your behaviors.
Nobody mapped the system underneath.
Communication tips, fight rules, weekly check-ins — none of it sticks because the pattern lives below behavior. We map the architecture. You get the move. No therapist required.
Same fight
Different week. Same script. Nobody knows the exit.
$200/hr
For couples therapy that takes months to even name the pattern.
"We're fine"
The two most expensive words in any relationship.
What You'll Discover
Five things you'll stop guessing about
Backed by Gottman Method, Attachment Theory, Polyvagal, and values psychology — translated into language you can use tonight.
Relationship Health Score (0–100)
A composite score across communication, values alignment, conflict patterns, and emotional connection. No vibes — just signal.
Communication Archetype
Peacekeeper, Truth-Bomber, Strategist, or Empath — and the exact reason every argument lands the way it does.
Top 3 Friction Triggers
The recurring loops you keep blaming on the dishes, the in-laws, the schedule. Named. Mapped. Sourced.
Attachment Pattern
Secure, anxious, avoidant, or disorganized — and how your nervous system is colliding with theirs in real time.
One Practice You Start Tonight
A targeted micro-practice built for your specific friction profile. Not a worksheet. Not homework. One move.
Sound Familiar?
Which couple are you?
How it works
Built for couples.
Take it on your own.
The Couples Decode is a one-person diagnostic about your relationship. You take it. You get your report. Your partner doesn't have to be involved — or even know you took it.
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Take the assessment
15 minutes. Solo. Phone or laptop.
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AI runs the analysis
Mapped through Gottman, attachment, polyvagal, values.
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Read your Decode
Score. Archetype. Friction map. One practice tonight.
Want both perspectives synthesized into one joint Us Brief? That's the full Couples & Family Alignment — separate product, both partners participate.
Two black sheep, two crowns. Same operating system.
Real Couples. Real Alignment.
What happens when two people stop guessing and start understanding each other's operating system.
"We thought we communicated well until the alignment report showed us we were speaking completely different value languages. Game changer for our marriage."
Sarah & Marcus T.
"The conflict resolution journal in INNSPO turned our weekly arguments into productive conversations. We actually look forward to our Sunday alignment check-ins now."
Priya & James K.
"Finding out we both had the same core values but completely different ways of expressing them was the biggest 'aha' moment of our relationship."
Elena & David R.
When the Decode opens the door
The full operating system for the next 90 days
Decode is the diagnostic. The Couples & Family Alignment Package is the build — joint assessments, the Us Brief, Money Map, Parenting Playbook, Boundaries scripts, the INNSPO course, and quarterly re-evaluation. Your Decode is credited toward the upgrade.
Know the score. Then change it.
15 minutes. $47. The most honest relationship health check you'll ever take — delivered within 48 hours.
$47 credited toward Couples & Family Alignment • No subscription
Frequently Asked Questions
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Couples Decode Sample Report Walkthrough
The 12-minute integrative read on the pattern between you two — before you spend another year guessing.