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Couples Decode

$47 · one-time

A black sheep and a white sheep face off

COUPLES DECODE · ONE TIME · $47 · SOLO

The fight isn't about the dishes.
See the pattern underneath.

THE PROBLEM

Same fight. Different week. Same script.

THE SOLUTION

Name your communication archetype, attachment pattern and top 3 friction triggers.

THE APPROACH

One solo assessment. One personal report. One practice to start tonight.

See the report

One-time · No subscription · $47 credits toward Couples & Family Alignment within 30 days

15 min

Solo assessment

48 hrs

Report delivered

$47

Credited within 30 days

THE BLACK SHEEP PATTERN

"We're fine" is the most expensive sentence in your relationship.

01

It was never about the dishes.

You asked three times. It was about feeling invisible, and keeping score because nobody was keeping track of you.

02

Tips didn't stick.

Fight rules, check-ins, $200/hr sessions that take months to name the pattern. The pattern lives below behavior.

03

Your side, decoded.

In 15 minutes you see your own patterns—so you can change how you show up, whether or not your partner joins you.

WHY I BUILT THIS · COUPLES DECODE

Hear it from Dr. Nicole.

“It's about understanding more about yourself so that you can understand more about each other.”

One minute on why this program exists — in her own words.

START WITH YOUR SIDE

You can't control them. You can understand you.

YOU

  • Communication Archetype
  • Attachment Pattern
  • Friction Triggers
The pattern

YOUR PARTNER · OPTIONAL LATER

  • Communication Archetype
  • Attachment Pattern
  • Friction Triggers

Your Decode reads your side only. Your partner never needs to join.

SEE IT BEFORE YOU CHOOSE

Inside Couples Decode.

Your perspective only—this is not a diagnosis of your partner. Joint briefs, Money Map, Parenting Playbook and INNSPO belong to Couples & Family Alignment.

01 · WHY WE BUILT IT

Because one of you is often ready before the other. You can't control another person—you can control you. So start there.

02 · WHAT IT'S BASED ON

Gottman Method, Attachment Theory, Polyvagal Theory and values psychology—translated into language you can use tonight.

03 · PROBLEMS IT SOLVES

The same fight on repeat, the roommate feeling, the "I've been clear" misread—named, mapped and sourced from your perspective.

04 · WHAT YOU RECEIVE

One personal report: Relationship Health Score, Communication Archetype, Top 3 Friction Triggers, Attachment Pattern and one practice for tonight.

Couples Decode report contents

YOUR REPORT

  1. 1Relationship Health Score
  2. 2Communication Archetype
  3. 3Top 3 Friction Triggers

What you receive.

SKEPTICS CORNER

The hard questions. Straight answers.

The biggest objection we hear is cost. Then people tell us how much time, energy and money they've already lost to no results, or to being worse off.

HOW IT WORKS

What you get, step by step.

  1. Step 1

    Take the assessment

    15 minutes, solo, on your phone or laptop.

  2. Step 2

    Read your Decode

    Score, archetype, friction triggers, attachment pattern and one practice for tonight.

  3. Step 3

    Go further together if you want

    Credit your $47 toward Couples & Family Alignment within 30 days.

WHAT COMES NEXT

The INNSPO app.

Dr. Nicole and Dr. Nick in your pocket. The app they designed holds the tools they use in their own lives: their meditations, their mindset work and more, plus an AI coach built on their own methods and on mindset pioneers such as Napoleon Hill, Neville Goddard, Dr. Demartini and Dr. Joe Dispenza. Not included with Couples Decode — INNSPO comes with Couples & Family Alignment, where your report becomes daily practice.

What is INNSPO?
INNSPO Your Health screen

Your Health

WHO IT'S FOR

What it is. What it is not.

For leaders who want to overcome their barriers. If that's health, mindset, business or relationship, we have something for you.

  • A solo diagnostic of your side of the relationship
  • Built on Gottman, Attachment Theory, Polyvagal and values psychology
  • A $47 start, credited toward Alignment within 30 days
  • Not an assessment of your partner
  • Not therapy
  • Not the full Alignment system (that is always a separate purchase)

THE SHIFT

Where you are. Where you're going.

  • It was never about the dishes.
  • Tips didn't stick.

Goals of the work, not guaranteed results.

WHAT YOU'RE WORKING TOWARD

You stop guessing. You start choosing.

You finally see your side of the pattern.

The fight has a name—and so does your part in it.

You know what to do tonight.

One practice built for your friction profile, not a worksheet.

You show up differently.

Change how you respond, and the whole dynamic starts to shift.

These are the goals of the work, not guaranteed results. Your progress depends on your starting point, consistency and individual circumstances.

THE HONEST COMPARISON

Not another quiz. Not months of retelling the story.

Your side of the pattern, named and personal — in 48 hours.

What you getCouples therapy sessionsOnline relationship quizCouples Decode
Time to your first real answerMonths of sessions to name the patternInstant, but generic15-minute assessment, report within 48 hours
Needs your partner to joinUsually, yesNo — you start with your side
Based onOne therapist's approachPop-psychology labelsGottman Method, Attachment Theory, Polyvagal Theory, values psychology
Personal Relationship Health Score
Names your top 3 friction triggersEventually, maybe
Something to do tonightHomework, if anyOne practice built for your friction profile
CostAbout $200 an hourFree, and worth it$47 once, credited toward Alignment within 30 days

Not a replacement for therapy where there is abuse or crisis.

Couples Transformations

Real Couples. Real Alignment.

What happens when two people stop guessing and start understanding each other's operating system.

"We were getting married soon and wanted to get on the same page about big things like marriage and having kids, but we honestly had no idea how to do it and not fight. It nailed who we are as individuals and helped us know how to approach each other. The big one was giving us a literal playbook of how to use our family values for planning marriage and parenting."

Couples Family Alignment client

Engaged couple

"We got to a crossroads of feeling like we both changed and didn't know if we wanted the same things anymore. Our relationship was just blah. When the couples report showed us how to align, meet, chat and handle conflict, we were floored by how helpful it was. We used the tools and it has made our relationship fun again. We're talking about interesting things, planning goals, planning things to do. It's a complete shift."

Couples Family Alignment client

Married couple

Know the score. Then change it.

15 minutes. $47. The most honest relationship health check you'll ever take — delivered within 48 hours.

$47 credited toward Couples & Family Alignment • No subscription

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Frequently Asked Questions

FIND YOUR RELATIONSHIP ROOT CAUSE

Not sure if this is the right entry point?

12 questions. Your couple archetype. The Pattern Web across communication, intimacy, money, parenting, identity, and family system. Results on screen.